Happy birthday!â¤ď¸ Iâm in a similar situation, you arenât alone. Just because he buys you things for Christmas/birthday definitely doesnât make him the âbest brother everâ, and I understand how you feel, itâs hard. My dad has older kids from a previous marriage and his kids have always treated me differently and never care to talk to me. Youâre life is worth living, things get rough but donât let them knock you down. Youâre so strong and you can get through anything.